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[گیسو]

when two opposite genders love each other, certainly theywant to live life by taking care of each other no matterwhat other s say. Where as arrange marriage is somethingarranged by our elders who always wish their children life tobe good. There is huge margin between these two marriages.It is really difficult to make a concrete choice between arranged marriage and love marriage. People who strongly believe in arranged marriages are likely to look askance at a love marriage and firmly believe that the romantic couple find themselves amidst deep shock when their short sighted pleasure-seeking comes to an end. These are people who are convinced about arranged marriages and claim that their reasons for doing so are absolutely rational and sensible.
People who enter into arranged marriages usually do so for religious or cultural reasons. People who marry for love do so at the urgings of their own heart and mind. Many times, our culture and our religion are strong enough to hold even bad marriages together. And sometimes our "love" for a person lessens with time and circumstances. Without the culture and/or religious glue, love marriages have nothing to keep them together after the love has gone.

[rayhaneh]

Difference between love marriage and arranged marriage

As we are observing these days love marriages are more common among the people while it was so for arranged marriages in the last decade but it doesn’t mean that love marriage is more successful.I compare them in this way : love marriage is just like a burning and hot matchstick which is very strong in the begging and can easily burn something or somebody and obviously it will finish as quickly as it was burned .In the other hand an arranged marriage is like hot water inside the kettle so it will not burn so intensely and it will get cooled in a longer time as its inside a protection. But as whole I think neither of them is complete and the marriage which is formed by intermixing of these two is the better choice than love marriage or arranged marriage.The third type of marriage is love come arranged

[محمد88]

In the name of freedom

Writing Activity : arranged marriage and love marriage

NOTICE: in this writing when I say love marriage and arranged marriage I mean definite kind of them and not a average kind
Though these types of discussions need deep studies, but I think none of them (arranged marriage and love marriage) is not suitable without the other one.
I mean if two opposite gender love each other and love and love but an untactfully love, there is no a bright future for them and I think all of us know a couple with these particulars.
On the other hand, I believe that if a couple only think about traditions and formalities and they don’t think about a lovely life for their future, there is not a bright future for them too.

If we want to classify these two types, I would call the first group “the result of unsatisfied l.u.s.t “and the second one “the result of being under some pressures like the limitation of age of marriage “
Unfortunately in countries such as Iran people usually aren’t satisfied. Majority of them try to not showing this but we can recognize that very easily. I give you some examples
One of the most highlight examples is having roving eyes between men! It may be ridiculous but it’s a fact, when a man with a wife and child look at a girl like what we are used too seeing that, it tells you He Is Not Satisfied in having s.e.x with his wife. And have became a mental pain for him and for his society life.

Or another example; studies tell that a large percent of the reasons of divorcements is not being satisfied, especially for women…and it may be unreasonable too, but it’s a fact too!
Investigations shows While 75 percent of men always reach orgasm during s.e.x, only 29 percent of women report the same. And it may causes bigger problems even divorcement as I told above.
I didn’t want to consider this discussion only in this manner, but we must know the reason of unsuccessful marriages,
whether love marriage or arranged marriage. And one of the most important reasons is this kind of problems.

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By the way, I do believe if we want to have a lifetime constant friend we should contemplate both love and arrangement and don’t forget that none of them aren’t useful lonely and they can filling void that is left by vanishing the other one in some special times. And both of them are incomplete without the other one and there is no difference between incomplete and incomplete.
.Wish every one have a successful marriage

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[Marichka]

Differences between Arranged Marriage and Love Marriage

We have two kinds and ways of marriage, arranged marriage that families play the main role to create this union. They try to select the other family with more similarity in culture, interests and social degree. But two persons that want to live together maybe don’t have any feelings to each other. If they have enough time to communicate they will understand that whether their decision was a good one or not. In addition to that, they have their families' support in any case. But in love marriage, love plays the main role. This love may emerge between two persons with different cultures, interests and social degrees. Apart from (...) these differences their feeling may not be deep and real when they get to know each other properly in long time. In other side they don’t have enough support from their families. Mere Love is not enough for life; we should try to get more recognition about each other property. Perhaps God creates love between persons who have different property(?) so that they can understand, respect and like each other with this love, maybe!! For all that if somebody wants to have a good selection in addition to love he/she should get a reality based decision to live with one another in any situations..

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score: 4.5/5

add. notes: the reasoning system was perfect. full comparison used. arrangement of sentences needs more attention.

[Marichka]

Differences between Arranged Marriage and Love Marriage

First, let me define what both of them exactly mean.Arranged Marriage is a marriage that is arranged by someone.The arrangement could be done by parents, a matchmaking agent, matrimonial websites, or a trusted third party or in many communities, priests or religious leaders as well as relatives or family friends. They all play a major role in matchmaking.This method should not be confused with Forced Marriage because in the Forced Marriage one or both of the parties is married without his or her consent while in the Arranged Marriage both of the parties marry together with consent.Now it's time to define the second part, Love Marriage.It is a union of two individuals based upon mutual affection and attraction.This way is the opposite of Arranged Marriage and Forced Marriage.

You can see the main differences between them in these definitions but there maybe [...] some more differences as well.I think many [...] people who want... to have a Love Marriage because it is very cool but I think they are wrong because they don't understand what exactly love is.Real love is different from some stories that we see in some movies or read in some books.Most of young people think love could be created by a small talk or a small meeting and then they think they are really in love with each other.In my opinion Love is far from some small feeling events.I don't exactly know what love is and how it could be created but I'm sure it is different with some love stories I heard about.

And about the "which one is better" part; I personally agree with Arranged Marriage because if we fall in love with somebody maybe one or both families will not agree with marriage and then maybe some bad events ............. in future ...............I heard a lot of bad and terrible news about this way like killing each other or suicide ..... etc.It is better to tell our parents if we like someone, when affection and attraction increase and we go far and get closer to each other by ourselves, it is hard to end it if our families do not agree with it.I know this way is cool but it is dangerous.And it doesn't mean in Arranged Marriage we will have no affection and attraction or in other word love, it is surely wrong.Maybe it is not as cool as Love Marriage at first step but in continue it will happen and everything will be okay while in Love Marriage first step is very cool and future maybe .......... bad.

I wrote too much, sorry.I never had a experience like this before and I never want to have that but if in future I will change my mind ........ surely I will choose Arranged Marriage

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score : 4/5

notes: pre-script was efficient. unneeded explanations were applied here and there.

[Madame Tussaud]

Tom's diner
by Suzanne Vega


I am sitting in the morning.....the diner on the corner
I am waiting at the counter for the man to pour the coffee
And he fills it only halfway and before I even argue
He is looking out the window at somebody coming in
It is always nice to see you says the man behind the counter
To the woman who has come in she is shaking her umbrella
And I look the other way as they are kissing their hellos
I'm pretending not to see them instead I pour the milk
I open the paper there's a story of an actor
Who had died he was drinking it was no one I had heard of
And I'm turning to the...........and looking for the funnies
When I'm feeling someone watching me and so I raise my head
there's a woman on the outside looking inside does she see me?
No she does not really see me........she sees her..............
And I'm trying not to notice that she's.............her skirt
And she's............her stockings her hair has......wet
Oh, this rain continue the morning as I'm listening
To the bells of the..........I am thinking of your voice

  محتوای مخفی: main lyric 

I am sitting
In the morning
At the diner
On the corner
I am waiting
At the counter
For the man
To pour the coffee
And he fills it
Only halfway
And before
I even argue
He is looking
Out the window
At somebody
Coming in
"It is always
Nice to see you"
Says the man
Behind the counter
To the woman
Who has come in
She is shaking
Her umbrella
And I look
The other way
As they are kissing
Their hellos
I'm pretending
Not to see them
Instead
I pour the milk
I open
Up the paper
There's a story
Of an actor
Who had died
While he was drinking
It was no one
I had heard of
And I'm turning
To the horoscope
And looking
For the funnies
When I'm feeling
Someone watching me
And so
I raise my head
There's a woman
On the outside
Looking inside
Does she see me?
No she does not
Really see me
Cause she sees
Her own reflection
And I'm trying
Not to notice
That she's hitching
Up her skirt
And while she's
Straightening her stockings
Her hair
Has gotten wet
Oh, this rain
It will continue
Through the morning
As I'm listening
To the bells
Of the cathedral
I am thinking
Of your voice...
And of the midnight picnic
Once upon a time
Before the rain began...
I finish up my coffee
It's time to catch the train

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[brain]

If I ever lose my faith in you

Sting

You could say I lost my faith in science and progress
You could say I lost my belief in the holy church
You could say I lost my sense of direction
You could say all of this ..... , but
If I ever lose my faith in you
There'd ..... nothing left for me to do

Some ..... say I was a lost man in a lost world
You could say I lost my faith in the people on TV
You could say I'd lost my belief in ........
They all seemed like game show ..... to me
If I ever lose my faith in you
There'd ...... nothing left for me to do
I could be lost inside their lies without a trace
But every time I close my eyes I see your face

never saw no ..... of science
That ..... go from a blessing to a curse
never saw no military solution
didn't always end up as something worse, but
Let me say this first
If I ever lose my faith in you
There'd be nothing left for me to do

( I don't really like this music I like its lyric )

  محتوای مخفی: ... 

You could say I lost my faith in science and progress
You could say I lost my belief in the holy church
You could say I lost my sense of direction
You could say all of this and worse, but
If I ever lose my faith in you
There'd be nothing left for me to do

Some would say I was a lost man in a lost world
You could say I lost my faith in the people on TV
You could say I'd lost my belief in our politicians
They all seemed like game show hosts to me
If I ever lose my faith in you
There'd be nothing left for me to do
I could be lost inside their lies without a trace
But every time I close my eyes I see your face

I never saw no miracle of science
That didn't go from a blessing to a curse
I never saw no military solution
That didn't always end up as something worse, but
Let me say this first
If I ever lose my faith in you
There'd be nothing left for me to do

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[Madame Tussaud]

THE VALUE OF EDUCATION

Education is not an end, but a means to an end. In other words, we do not educate children only for the purposes of educating them; our purpose is to fit them for life. As soon as we realize this fact, we will understand that it is very important to choose a system of education which will really prepare children for life. It is not enough just to choose the first system of education one finds; or to continue with one's old system of education without examining it to see whether it is in fact suitable or not.
In many modern countries it has for some time been fashionable to think that, by free education for all – whether rich or poor, clever or stupid – one can solve all the problems of society and build a perfect nation. But we can already see that free education for all is not enough: we find in such countries a far large number of people with university degree than there are jobs for them to fill. Because of their degrees, they refuse to do what they think "low" work; and, in fact, work with the hands is thought to be dirty and shameful in such countries.
But we have only to think a moment to understand that the work of a completely uneducated farmer is far more important than that of a professor: we can live without education, but we die if we have no food. If no one cleaned our streets and took the rubbish away from our houses, we should get terrible diseases in our towns. In countries where there are no servants because everyone is ashamed to do such work, the professors have to waste much of their time doing housework.
In fact, when we say that all of us must be educated to fit us for life, it means that we must be educated in such a way that, firstly, each of us can do whatever job is suited to his brain and ability, and, secondly, that we can realize that all jobs are necessary to society, and that it is very bad to be ashamed of one's work, or to scorn someone else is. Only such a type of education can be called valuable to society

words
end:aim,purpose
a means to an end:something to reach to perpose
fit:equip
fashionable:common,usual
free education:education without payment
shameful:disgracing
scorn:regard with contempt

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Missing Person
Episode 1: The Man in the Mask

Part 1 of Episode 1 :

I didn’t kill him.

I didn’t even plan to kill him. I had a gun, but I just wanted to hurt him and stop him from attacking me. I had no idea why this stranger was hitting me, and it was ticking me off.

This morning Anne Prado, one of my students at the University of Southwestern California, came to my office. She said she had a problem and she needed my help. Her sister, Sarah, was missing. We were on our way to Sarah's apartment to find her, when halfway up the front steps of the building, a man ran toward me and started punching me.

I hit the man in the ear. He screamed with pain. He was small, but a tough son-of-a-gun. I stepped back, and hit him hard in the stomach.

“Oh my God!” he moaned. I think I hurt him that time

End of Part 1 of Episode 1

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Missing Person

The Man in The Mask

I didn’t kill him.

I didn’t even plan to kill him. I had a gun, but I just wanted to hurt him and stop him from attacking me. I had no idea why this stranger was hitting me, and it was ticking me off.

This morning Anne Prado, one of my students at the University of Southwestern California, came to my office. She said she had a problem and she needed my help. Her sister, Sarah, was missing. We were on our way to Sarah's apartment to find her, when halfway up the front steps of the building, a man ran toward me and started punching me.

I hit the man in the ear. He screamed with pain. He was small, but a tough son-of-a-gun. I stepped back, and hit him hard in the stomach.

“Oh my God!” he moaned. I think I hurt him that time

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مردی پشت نقاب

من اونو نکشتم.

حتی نقشه ای هم برای کشتنش نداشتم.یه اسلحه داشتم ، اون داشت منو میزد و من فقط میخواستم از خودم دفاع کنم.نمیدونستم واسه ی چی اون غریبه داره اینکارو میکنه ولی داشت منو عصبی میکرد.

امروز صبح آنه پرادو ، یکی از دانشجوهام در دانشگاه های جنوب غربی کالیفرنیا به دفترم اومد. میگفت که یه مشکلی واسش پیش اومده و نیاز به کمک من داره. خواهرش -سارا- گم شده بود.
تا آپارتمان سارا در حال جستجو بودیم. نزدیک آپارتمانش که شدیم ، مردی به سمت من دوید و شروع کرد به مشت زدن .منم گوشش رو زخمی کردم. او شروع کرد به فریاد زدن. با اینکه کوچیک بود ...؟....ولی هر چی بهش میخورد عینه خیالش نبود....؟.... . اومدم عقب و خیلی محکم به شکمش مشت زدم.

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