In the name of God
Differences between arranged marriage and live marriage
We all have been created as we can choose our ways of life according to our will and our interest. Perhaps in our own lives we couldn’t have selected the best manner based on the variety situations or due to our families. However, what is highly important is that we live in this world with happily and in peace. One of the most significant choices is the choosing of one partner for the rest of life.
Furthermore, there are many kinds of marriages such as arranged marriage and love marriage. First of all, comparing these two kinds, we can relatively distinguish why and how so many couples can or can not live with each other. Of course, there are clearly other reasons related to them which they are not in this case. In the arranged marriage, as you know, juveniles prepared to the marriage base on a tradition customs .they should accept this arranged choice because their parents or ancestors appoint it for their own children. One of the problems is that falling in love may be so challengeable between two couples. They are familiar with their behaviors and characteristics even their names after marriage. Let's mention that there is not any option for couples deciding whether or not they would welcome in the life.
Love is the vital key in continuing of marriage. In love marriage, it is objectively the easiest way to choose the other party and the most conflict among families. There is a chance in this case. There is not any certification of the continuity of marriage.
In my opinion, the ideal partner and less conflict in marital life are evident in neither love nor arranged one. Having a wellbeing marriage and creating a compromise between parties can be found in all of lives which the couples obviously determine and steadily stand up on their own marital decisions and personal promises that they can go on the rest of their lives with love and friendship.